{"id":3281,"date":"2005-04-20T19:21:24","date_gmt":"2005-04-21T02:21:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/michaelhans.com\/eclecticism\/2005\/04\/20\/heteroflexible\/"},"modified":"2019-12-13T12:07:26","modified_gmt":"2019-12-13T20:07:26","slug":"heteroflexible","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/michaelhans.com\/eclecticism\/2005\/04\/20\/heteroflexible\/","title":{"rendered":"Heteroflexible"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class='__iawmlf-post-loop-links' style='display:none;' data-iawmlf-post-links='[{&quot;id&quot;:8405,&quot;href&quot;:&quot;http:\\\/\\\/uk.groups.yahoo.com\\\/group\\\/utilikilt&quot;,&quot;archived_href&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;redirect_href&quot;:&quot;https:\\\/\\\/www.yahoo.com\\\/&quot;,&quot;checks&quot;:[],&quot;broken&quot;:false,&quot;last_checked&quot;:null,&quot;process&quot;:&quot;done&quot;},{&quot;id&quot;:8430,&quot;href&quot;:&quot;http:\\\/\\\/www.google.com\\\/search?client=safari&amp;rls=en-us&amp;q=heteroflexible&amp;ie=UTF-8&amp;oe=UTF-8&quot;,&quot;archived_href&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;redirect_href&quot;:&quot;http:\\\/\\\/www.google.com\\\/webhp?client=safari&quot;,&quot;checks&quot;:[],&quot;broken&quot;:false,&quot;last_checked&quot;:null,&quot;process&quot;:&quot;done&quot;},{&quot;id&quot;:8431,&quot;href&quot;:&quot;http:\\\/\\\/www.wordspy.com\\\/words\\\/heteroflexible.asp&quot;,&quot;archived_href&quot;:&quot;https:\\\/\\\/web-wp.archive.org\\\/web\\\/20230307025942\\\/https:\\\/\\\/wordspy.com\\\/words\\\/heteroflexible.asp&quot;,&quot;redirect_href&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;checks&quot;:[{&quot;date&quot;:&quot;2026-03-10 10:11:16&quot;,&quot;http_code&quot;:522}],&quot;broken&quot;:false,&quot;last_checked&quot;:{&quot;date&quot;:&quot;2026-03-10 10:11:16&quot;,&quot;http_code&quot;:522},&quot;process&quot;:&quot;done&quot;},{&quot;id&quot;:6221,&quot;href&quot;:&quot;http:\\\/\\\/click.linksynergy.com\\\/fs-bin\\\/click?id=xLsJkztrnNY&amp;offerid=78941.10000170&amp;type=4&amp;subid=0&quot;,&quot;archived_href&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;redirect_href&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;checks&quot;:[],&quot;broken&quot;:false,&quot;last_checked&quot;:null,&quot;process&quot;:&quot;done&quot;},{&quot;id&quot;:8432,&quot;href&quot;:&quot;http:\\\/\\\/click.linksynergy.com\\\/fs-bin\\\/stat?id=xLsJkztrnNY&amp;offerid=78941&amp;type=3&amp;subid=0&amp;tmpid=1826&amp;RD_PARM1=itms%253A%252F%252Fphobos.apple.com%252FWebObjects%252FMZSearch.woa%252Fwa%252Fcom.apple.jingle.search.DirectAction%252FadvancedSearchResults%253FsongTerm=Transitions%26partnerId%3D30&quot;,&quot;archived_href&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;redirect_href&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;checks&quot;:[],&quot;broken&quot;:false,&quot;last_checked&quot;:null,&quot;process&quot;:&quot;done&quot;}]'><\/div>\n<p>One of the mailing lists I belong to (though I don&#8217;t chime in terribly often) is that of the <a href=\"http:\/\/uk.groups.yahoo.com\/group\/utilikilt\/\" title=\"Yahoo! Groups: utilikilt\">Utilikilts Yahoo! Group<\/a>. For the past few days there&#8217;s been an interesting discussion of sexuality. Over the course of the discussion, I just stumbled across a new term that I&#8217;d not heard before, but that I like a <em>lot<\/em>.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<blockquote><p>\n    My own experience has been a interesting adventure.  I had always been devout hetero.  I like men.  I like the way they feel, the way they smell (most of the time).  I like the masculineness (if that&#8217;s a word) of a man. I like to feel feminine in his big hands and strong arms.  I like sex with a man.  That being said, I discovered in the last couple of years that an occational romp with another woman is just plain fun.  My husband says &#8220;For instant lesbian, just add taquilla&#8221;&#8230; that&#8217;s me, but does that make me gay or just a horny drunk?\n  <\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>  yes.  although the term i&#8217;ve heard bandied about is heteroflexible.\n<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><em>Heteroflexible<\/em>. What a wonderful word &#8212; especially for someone who&#8217;s comfortable self-identifying as <a href=\"https:\/\/michaelhans.com\/eclecticism\/2004\/10\/okay_okay8590_s.html\" title=\"Eclecticism: Okay, okay...85-90% straight\">85-90% straight<\/a>. Apparently this <a href=\"http:\/\/www.google.com\/search?client=safari&amp;rls=en-us&amp;q=heteroflexible&amp;ie=UTF-8&amp;oe=UTF-8\" title=\"Google for 'heteroflexible'\">isn&#8217;t a new word<\/a>, either, though it&#8217;s the first time I&#8217;d run across it.<\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s <a href=\"http:\/\/www.wordspy.com\/words\/heteroflexible.asp\" title=\"The Word Spy - heteroflexible\">Word Spy&#8217;s definition<\/a>:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\n  <strong>heteroflexible<\/strong>  (het.ur.oh.FLEKS.uh.bul)  <em>n<\/em>. A heterosexual person who is open to relationships with people of the same sex. \u2014<em>adj<\/em>. Also: <strong>hetero-flexible<\/strong>, <strong>heteroflex<\/strong>.<br \/>\n  -\u2014<strong>heteroflexibility<\/strong> <em>n<\/em>.\n<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/click.linksynergy.com\/fs-bin\/click?id=xLsJkztrnNY&amp;offerid=78941.10000170&amp;type=4&amp;subid=0\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"iTunes\" border=\"0\" width=\"61\" height=\"15\" src=\"http:\/\/images.apple.com\/itunesaffiliates\/logos\/iTunes_sm_bdg61x15.png\" \/><\/a><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" border=\"0\" width=\"1\" height=\"1\" src=\"http:\/\/ad.linksynergy.com\/fs-bin\/show?id=xLsJkztrnNY&amp;bids=78941.10000170&amp;type=4&amp;subid=0\" \/> &#8220;<a href=\"http:\/\/click.linksynergy.com\/fs-bin\/stat?id=xLsJkztrnNY&amp;offerid=78941&amp;type=3&amp;subid=0&amp;tmpid=1826&amp;RD_PARM1=itms%253A%252F%252Fphobos.apple.com%252FWebObjects%252FMZSearch.woa%252Fwa%252Fcom.apple.jingle.search.DirectAction%252FadvancedSearchResults%253FsongTerm=Transitions%26partnerId%3D30\" title=\"Search for 'Transitions' on the iTMS\">Transitions<\/a>&#8221; by <a href=\"http:\/\/click.linksynergy.com\/fs-bin\/stat?id=xLsJkztrnNY&amp;offerid=78941&amp;type=3&amp;subid=0&amp;tmpid=1826&amp;RD_PARM1=itms%253A%252F%252Fphobos.apple.com%252FWebObjects%252FMZSearch.woa%252Fwa%252Fcom.apple.jingle.search.DirectAction%252FadvancedSearchResults%253FartistTerm%253DBeastie Boys, The%26partnerId%3D30\" title=\"Search for Beastie Boys, The on the iTMS\">Beastie Boys, The<\/a> from the album <em><a href=\"http:\/\/click.linksynergy.com\/fs-bin\/stat?id=xLsJkztrnNY&amp;offerid=78941&amp;type=3&amp;subid=0&amp;tmpid=1826&amp;RD_PARM1=itms%253A%252F%252Fphobos.apple.com%252FWebObjects%252FMZSearch.woa%252Fwa%252Fcom.apple.jingle.search.DirectAction%252FadvancedSearchResults%253FalbumTerm=Ill Communication%26partnerId%3D30\" title=\"Search for Ill Communication on the iTMS\">Ill Communication<\/a><\/em> (1994, 2:31).<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>One of the mailing lists I belong to (though I don&#8217;t chime in terribly often) is that of the Utilikilts Yahoo! Group. For the past few days there&#8217;s been an interesting discussion of sexuality. Over the course of the discussion, I just stumbled across a new term that I&#8217;d not heard before, but that I like a _lot_.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2043],"tags":[13,16],"class_list":["post-3281","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-personal","tag-life","tag-quotes"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/michaelhans.com\/eclecticism\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3281","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/michaelhans.com\/eclecticism\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/michaelhans.com\/eclecticism\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/michaelhans.com\/eclecticism\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/michaelhans.com\/eclecticism\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3281"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/michaelhans.com\/eclecticism\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3281\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/michaelhans.com\/eclecticism\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3281"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/michaelhans.com\/eclecticism\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3281"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/michaelhans.com\/eclecticism\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3281"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}