Heteroflexible

One of the mailing lists I belong to (though I don’t chime in terribly often) is that of the Utilikilts Yahoo! Group. For the past few days there’s been an interesting discussion of sexuality. Over the course of the discussion, I just stumbled across a new term that I’d not heard before, but that I like a lot.

My own experience has been a interesting adventure. I had always been devout hetero. I like men. I like the way they feel, the way they smell (most of the time). I like the masculineness (if that’s a word) of a man. I like to feel feminine in his big hands and strong arms. I like sex with a man. That being said, I discovered in the last couple of years that an occational romp with another woman is just plain fun. My husband says “For instant lesbian, just add taquilla”… that’s me, but does that make me gay or just a horny drunk?

yes. although the term i’ve heard bandied about is heteroflexible.

Heteroflexible. What a wonderful word — especially for someone who’s comfortable self-identifying as 85-90% straight. Apparently this isn’t a new word, either, though it’s the first time I’d run across it.

Here’s Word Spy’s definition:

heteroflexible (het.ur.oh.FLEKS.uh.bul) n. A heterosexual person who is open to relationships with people of the same sex. —adj. Also: hetero-flexible, heteroflex.
-—heteroflexibility n.

iTunesTransitions” by Beastie Boys, The from the album Ill Communication (1994, 2:31).

Social Realist

Some silly/fun astrology bits from #flickr tonight…

djwudi: what’re you doing, underbunny?
underbunny: …I’m reading from my favorite astrobooks, dj.
djwudi: aah, okies
platinum: UB, what was the title of that book again?
underbunny: …the Secret Language of Birthdays, & then there’s the Secret Language of Relationships.
underbunny: …gimme your birthday, dj!
djwudi: May 3
djwudi: ’bout two weeks ’til I hit 32
djwudi: whee!
platinum: Lord, May is that close? Wow!
underbunny: …May 3, the Day of the Social Realist.
underbunny: …strengths are insightful, clever & charming.
underbunny: …weaknesses are demanding, procrastinating & head-headed.
underbunny: …oops!
underbunny: …hard-headed. :)
djwudi: I am not stubborn!
djwudi: dammit
djwudi stomps his foot
underbunny: …hehe.
underbunny: …got someone to match with?
djwudi laughs
djwudi: Nov. 3
djwudi: my g/f
underbunny: …dj, you’re not going to like it.
djwudi laughs
underbunny: …May 3 & November 3.
djwudi: that’s encouraging
djwudi: gimme the bad news…
underbunny: …k.
underbunny: …it’s got a pretty title? :)
underbunny: …Crusading Spirit.
underbunny: …o wait!
underbunny: …read the wrong one!
underbunny: …which you’re not going to like either. :D
djwudi laughs!
djwudi: doomed!
djwudi: doomed, I tell you!
underbunny: …also pretty title.
djwudi: star cross’d lovers, and all that
underbunny: …Second Childhood.
underbunny: …strengths are entertaining, youthful & relaxed.
underbunny: …weaknesses are closed off, misdirected & stubborn.
underbunny: …best for friendship.
underbunny: …worst for love.
djwudi: hmmmmmmm…
djwudi: well, we seem to be doing well so far
djwudi: I’ll just keep my fingers crossed :D

Admittedly, I don’t put much stock in astrology or such things, but I’ll freely admit that they’re fun to play with. I think Prairie and I are doing better than this book seems to expect, though…

iTunesHome (Air ‘Around the Golf’ Remix)” by Depeche Mode from the album Remixes 81-04 (Limited Edition) (2004, 3:55).

Pope Benedict XVI

I’ve been browsing articles about the new Pope off and on all day…have to say, I’m a bit disappointed. They seem to have picked the most staunchly conservative of the candidates.

Bits and pieces from CNN’s profile:

The newly elected Pope Benedict XVI, Cardinal Joseph Ratzinger of Germany, was one of the most powerful men in the Vatican under Pope John Paul II, a strict enforcer of church doctrine who earned the nickname “Cardinal No.”

[…]

Ratzinger became known as “Cardinal No” because of his drives to crack down on the liberation theology movement, religious pluralism, challenges to traditional teachings on issues such as homosexuality, and calls to ordain women as priests.

[…]

Ratzinger has said modernity led to a blurring of sexual identity, causing some feminists to become adversaries of men. He labeled homosexuality “an intrinsic moral evil.”

He argued that Muslim Turkey did not belong in Christian Europe and issued a document saying that Catholicism was the only true religion, questioning the validity of other religions, even Christian ones, even as his Pope John Paul II was trying to reach out to other faiths.

[…]

He rejected a 1993 pastoral letter co-written by fellow German Cardinal Walter Kasper that encouraged divorced and civilly remarried Catholics to return to the sacraments.

Y’know, in the church I was brought up in, I was taught that we were supposed to be accepting of others different from us. That we were supposed to love all people equally. To do unto others as we would have done to us. That Jesus shunned the powerful and spent time with the weak, downtrodden, and humble masses.

Of course, I wasn’t brought up Catholic.

iTunesGraveyard” by Webley, Jason from the album Springman Records Sampler (2003, 3:57).

Pop!

Argh!

There’s a sound effect in the song I’m listening to right now — “Useless (The Kruder + Dorfmeister Session)” by Depeche Mode, off of Remixes 81-04 (Limited Edition) — that sounds nearly exactly like the “pop” noise iChat makes when I get a new message from someone I’m not currently in a conversation with and a new window pops on screen.

I looked around my screen three times in a row before I figured out where the “pop” noises were coming from.

I’m a dork.

iTunesUseless (The Kruder + Dorfmeister Session)” by Depeche Mode from the album Remixes 81-04 (Limited Edition) (2004, 9:07).

Flickr Goodies

Back when it was formally announced that Flickr was being bought by Yahoo!, they mentioned that those of us who’d already paid for Pro accounts would be getting super mega bonuses as a reward. Word finally came out today on just what those bonuses are

Everyone who already purchased a Pro account at the old price ($41.77) prior to the switchover today, will receive the following upgrades:

  • If you have a 1 year pro account it will be extended to 2 years (if you bought a 2 year Pro account it will be extended to 4 years)

  • 2 invites for 1 year Pro accounts to be given to anybody you want to give them to (that is, anybody except people who’ve already got a paid Flickr account, and/or yourself).

[…] Also, Pro accounts now get 2 GB a month in uploads, up from a mere 1 GB previously. This of course applies to existing Pro accounts too.

Pretty good deal!

Now I just need to figure out who to give those two freebie Pro accounts to…

iTunesMinas Tirith” by del Maestro, Ben/Shore, Howard from the album Lord of the Rings, The: The Return of the King (2003, 3:37).

Neri di Bicci, ‘Virgin and Child With Six Saints’

Procession from Town Hall to St. James Cathedral, Seattle, WAAs we were on our way back up the hill after running an errand downtown today, Prairie and I noticed a procession leaving Town Hall. There was a large icon-type puppet figure towards the back, an angel figure towards the front, and quite a few children in acolyte’s robes, so we figured that it was religious in nature, but didn’t know much more than that. Prairie noticed a gentleman standing near us wearing a priest’s collar and asked him what was going on.

As it turns out, we’d stumbled into the celebrations surrounding the return of a 15th century altar painting by Renaissance artist Neri di Bicci to St. James Cathedral after restoration work. This piqued our interest, so we followed along up to the cathedral to watch the pageant and blessing service.

Neri di Bicci's 'Virgin and Child With Six Saints' at St. James Cathedral, Seattle, WAWhile there, we found out that there’s something of a mystery surrounding this work of art — namely, how it got to St. James Cathedral in the first place.

But the big question surrounding the Renaissance work remains unanswered: How did this 15th-century altar painting by Florentine artist Neri di Bicci end up in St. James’ basement? Did a parishioner buy it? Was it an anonymous gift?

Art historians, church administrators and amateur sleuths have all taken their shots at solving the puzzle, but none has succeeded.

[…]

Church officials didn’t know they had a museum-quality piece until 1991. Then, an architect weighing a bid for work at the church asked a friend, Elizabeth Darrow, to take a look at it.

Darrow, then a UW art graduate student who had studied Renaissance art in Florence, was stunned when she saw the regal young Virgin sitting on a monumental throne.

“This is the most important Renaissance artwork in the Northwest — and the largest,” said Darrow, now a guest scholar at the J. Paul Getty Museum in Los Angeles.

Darrow believes it is among the most exquisite and detailed works of the Virgin Mary by the prolific di Bicci.

“The colors are very intense and vibrant,” she said.

“Her face is round, with rosy, translucent skin and refined features: straight nose, delicately arched eyebrows,” she said. “It’s very beautiful.”

[…]

Art scholars suspect the painting hung in an Italian church for most of its existence and was probably sold in the 19th century when the market for Renaissance artwork began. When it was found at St. James, it was in a 19th-century frame, Dorman said.

How it ended up at a Seattle church is less clear.

“It’s a great mystery,” said Darrow, who has gone so far as to track down wealthy local Catholic families for clues. She still has not given up hope of solving the puzzle; she’s even enlisted the help of art scholars in Florence.

St. James administrators have searched all their archives at the cathedral and the archdiocese, “and there is no record, no bill of sale, no letter,” Ryan said.

Church officials heard there was an art dealer or collector who moved a few di Bicci paintings to the United States — mostly to the Midwest — during the 1920s and 1930s, but it is unknown whether the St. James Madonna was among them.

Church administrators have tracked down congregation members and workers from the 1950s. The best they can tell is that someone, perhaps an architect, found the painting in a crate in the lower level of the cathedral during a major renovation in 1950.

Really a fascinating little piece of local art history to stumble across on an otherwise quiet Sunday afternoon. The painting was still partially under wraps for today’s ceremonies, but it will be hung this week and formally dedicated during next Sunday’s 4pm vespers service.

More photos can, as usual, be found in a Flickr photoset.

Acapella Nintendo

It’s not often I find something that appeals equally to two such disparate sides of my childhood — the video game playing geek and the award-winning children’s choir member — but this video of University of Wisconsin acapella group Redefined singing Nintendo theme songs manages to pull it off…and quite well, at that.

Geeky, yes — but very cool!

iTunesFirefly, The” by Chag, Niraj from the album Untouchable Outcaste Beats Vol. 1 (1997, 5:37).

Nine Inch Nails releases single for GarageBand

Oh, wow but this is cool. Trent Reznor has released NIN’s new single, ‘The Hand that Feeds’, as a 70Mb GarageBand file.

Trent Reznor of Nine Inch Nails has made available the band’s new single, “The Hand That Feeds,” as a free download for Apple’s GarageBand application. The song, which weighs in at a hefty 70MB, features multiple tracks that you can easily tweak. “For quite some time I’ve been interested in the idea of allowing you the ability to tinker around with my tracks — to create remixes, experiment, embellish or destroy what’s there,” Reznor says. “After spending some quality time sitting in hotel rooms on a press tour, it dawned on me that the technology now exists and is already in the hands of some of you. I got to work experimenting and came up with something I think you’ll enjoy.”

This is going to be so much fun to play with…

Friday cat Tribble blogging!

Friday Cat Blogging” is a well-known, oft-derided, but much loved cliché in the weblogging community. However, for those of us that don’t have cats, while we might enjoy looking at everyone else’s, we sometimes end up feeling a bit left out.

However.

I may not have a cat…

…but I do have a Tribble!

And so begins “Friday Tribble Blogging!”

Friday Tribble Blogging, my apartment, Seattle, WA

Isn’t he cute? :) He’s nestled up on my bed right now, napping on my pillows. They look so innocent when they’re asleep….

The next logical step

First, the good news (and, for once, this is good news): federal legislation is being introduced that will protect a woman’s ability to get birth control.

Reports of pharmacists with particular religious and moral beliefs denying prescriptions for birth control have prompted legislation that would ensure all prescriptions are filled.

House and Senate backers unveiled a bill dubbed the Access to Legal Pharmaceuticals Act (ALPhA) on Thursday.

It would allow a pharmacist to refuse to fill a prescription only if the prescription can be passed to and filled by a co-worker at the same pharmacy.

[…]

“What have we come to in this country?” Rep. Carolyn Maloney, a New York Democrat and House sponsor of the bill, said Thursday morning at a rally on Capitol Hill. “We are merely saying, ‘let the laws in this country stand.’ Let a woman be treated with dignity. When she has a prescription from her doctor, that privacy should be respected.”

The bad news comes later on in the article, with someone applying the same ridiculous extrapolations that lead anti-gay-marriage bigots to claim that eventually we’ll be marrying our pets and children.

[Karen] Brauer told Reuters she believes doctors will eventually begin ordering women to abort disabled children, or refuse to treat them after birth.

“They’ll force women to kill their children … It will be like China. It’s the next logical step,” she told Reuters.

It’s absolutely mind-boggling to me that there are people out there who think like this — who actually believe this crap.

iTunesHurdy Gurdy Man, The” by Butthole Surfers from the album Hurdy Gurdy Man, The (1990, 4:01).