Help send flowers to the newlyweds

Another nice project springing up over the past few days — Flowers for Al and Don.

This afternoon, on Boing Boing, I read about this great idea. Basically, people are generously sending flowers to random gay couples waiting in line to get married in San Francisco. This is a brilliant idea, but I immediately recognized a problem. The flower shop cited, Flowers by the Bay, is apparently charging a minimum of US \$47 to deliver these flowers. That’s probably market value, but it’s a bit steep for individuals who might want to help out (particularly if they’re paying in Canadian dollars or other weaker currencies) but can’t spare fifty bucks.

Hence, Flowers for Al and Don. I’m using a PayPal account to collect money, with which I’ll buy bouquets in bulk for the couples in line. You can donate as much or little as you please, and I pledge that every cent (minus the PayPal fees) that I receive will go to this project. If make a donation, and want your name and/or Web site to be listed below, let me know when making your payment in PayPal.

He’s raised over \$4000 dollars so far — that’s a lot of flowers! But I’m sure there are still some happy couples waiting…

Also worth checking out: Justly Married, a gallery of images of legally married couples coming out of City Hall in San Francisco. I don’t see how anyone could go through that photo gallery without a grin on their face.

(both links via Arcterex)

This bandwagon just keeps rollin’ on…

I am loving, loving, loving one aspect of my newsreading these days.

San Francisco started it.

New Mexico is going to start.

Chicago, Minneapolis, Salt Lake City (!!!) and Plattsburgh, NY are also expressing support and talking about joining in.

Judges keep refusing to grant injunctions stopping the process — in one beautiful instance, the request was refused on the basis of a misused semicolon.

There are two things that really stand out to me about how wonderful this is. The first is that it’s suddenly happening so fast, and gaining so much support across the country. The second is how it all began

It was only his 12th day as mayor of San Francisco, but Gavin Newsom decided that night — the very night he attended President Bush’s State of the Union address in Washington, D.C. — that he was going to defy California law.

And turn the nation on its ear.

Attending the president’s Jan. 20 speech as a guest of House Minority Leader Nancy Pelosi, Newsom listened closely as Bush voiced his strong support for outlawing same-sex marriage — with a constitutional amendment, if necessary.

Not long after the speech, Newsom called his chief of staff, Steve Kawa, a gay man who was at home with his partner and their two children. ”He told me that he wanted to do something,” Kawa said.

Two weeks later, during a staff meeting, Newsom dropped the bombshell on his top aides: He wanted them to explore how the city could start issuing marriage licenses to gay and lesbian couples.

Kawa said the mayor asked staff to gather legal briefs, news articles and other background information. Added his communications chief, Peter Ragone, ``He also wanted it done quietly.”

Within 24 hours, Kawa was on the phone with Kate Kendell, executive director of the National Center for Lesbian Rights, a San Francisco-based public interest organization.

Her reaction: ”Oh, my God, you’re kidding me,” Kendell said in an interview.

It was the first time, Kendell said, that a mayor of an American city wanted to take such an initiative. And Newsom, a straight Irish Catholic man married for two years, was the perfect politician to take on the fight, she said.

Thank God for people like Gavin Newsom — people who decide that it’s time to do the right thing, and do it.

And congratulations to every single one of the more than 3,000 brand-new married, loving couples.

It’s been a long time coming.

iTunes: “Bacchanalian Feast” by Original Love Tribe, The from the album Twisted Secrets Vol. 2 (1993, 5:46).

Smoke and mirrors

Related to the previous post, a new whitepaper from security consulting firm BoydForbes Security states that the nation’s aviation security system is “smoke and mirrors.”

“Today we do not have anything resembling real security to protect the commercial aviation system and the traveling public,” asserts David Forbes, president of Colorado-based BoydForbes Security. “The sham pretense on stage now, and the implied direction of the future, is Oscar winning material of the ‘smoke and mirrors’ variety.”

[…]

Among the major conclusions of the white paper:

  • Security upgrades are aimed at show, not substance.
  • There’s been a failure to replace incompetent management.
  • An enormous bureaucracy hinders security flexibility.
  • A lack of accountability continues to persist.
  • There’s a lack of cohesion.

Now boarding Osama bin Laden…

Feel safe yet?

Imagine if the world’s most notorious fugitive, Osama bin Laden, attempted to board an airliner in the United States. Suppose he were clean-shaven, sporting short hair, wearing a pinstriped business suit and looked like so many other travelers that no suspicions were raised. How far might he get? If he used aliases such as names of family members, he would be nabbed instantly and whisked away for questioning. That’s because many of his relatives are on the FBI’s secret “no-fly list,” according to intelligence sources.

But suppose he boldly decided to use his own name. Would he be cleared to fly? Insight recently learned that scenario was tested at a U.S. airport in the South during January. The result was troubling: America’s most-wanted fugitive is cleared to fly. According to airline-security documents obtained by this magazine, the name Osama bin Laden was punched into the computer by an airline official and, remarkably, that name was cleared at the security checkpoint all passengers must pass through before being issued a boarding pass.

Y’know, I knew the guy sitting behind me on the Memphis to Cincinnati leg of my trip home looked a little too clean cut to be believed.

More seriously, there’s some very interesting information in the article about how the current CAPS (and proposed CAPS II) system works, and how effective it really is (answer: not very).

iTunes: “Renaissance Affair” by Hooverphonic from the album Magnificent Tree, The (2000, 3:25).

10 Random Songs

From D: Put your .mp3 collection on random, list the first 10 songs it plays. No editing allowed (though I don’t mind editorializing, myself).

Mousse T: Horny (Clean Version) from DJ Mix 2000 (1998, 3:54): One of the side effects of DJing for years was picking up a lot of CDs that I otherwise wouldn’t have — this was one of them. Actually, this track is one of the more listenable tracks from the album (which really isn’t saying much), and I can at least listen all the way through (if I’m distracted) without jumping for the “skip forward” button.

The Vienna Boys’ Choir: Heiligste Nacht from Christmas in Vienna (1991, 4:26): I actually got to meet (and sing with, if I remember correctly) one incarnation of the VBC many years ago, when they came through Anchorage and I was still a member of the Anchorage Childrens’ Choir. This is an album that normally only gets played around Christmastime, as I’m no big fan of Christmas music, especially off-season.

The Sisters of Mercy: Torch from Floodland (1987, 3:51): I couldn’t listen to SoM for the longest time, after they got heavily overplayed at Sharkey’s, one of the earliest alternative clubs in Anchorage. Lots of SoM every weekend drove me away from them after a while. A few years later, I finally got back into them, and now there’s not much SoM that I don’t enjoy.

Queen: Don’t Try Suicide from The Game (1980, 3:52): While I’m a long-time fan of Queen, this has to be one of their worst songs ever. Why is it that Grand Master Flash has been the only artist ever to come up with an anti-(bad thing of choice) song that was actually good (in this case, his anti-cocaine jam “White Lines (Don’t Do It)”)?

Madonna: Vogue (Bette Davis Dub) from Vogue (1990, 7:28): I’ve always had a lot of respect for Madonna, and generally enjoyed the music she’s put out. No matter what you may think of her or her music, she’s managed to keep herself in the headlines and put out a lot of good, solid, pop/dance music for many years now, generally doing so entirely on her own terms, whether that meant being outrageously sexual, outrageously religious, or just outrageous. The famous Madonna/Britney kiss was one of the first big indicators I’ve seen from her that she might be slipping and getting a bit desperate for press — hopefully that was just a momentary aberration.

DJ H. Geek: I Don’t Know Who I Am… from 3 Years and Counting… (1998, 10:07): DJ Geek, aka Kory, is a friend of mine that I DJ’d with for a few years at Gig’s. He went from mixing to creating his own music, and was nice enough to occasionally toss a CD of his my way. These days, I’ll be listening to something, hear a track I don’t recognize right off, think “hey, that’s good…who is it?” and realize that it’s one of Kory’s tracks. Not bad, not bad at all.

Love and Rockets: Lift (Malibu) from Resurrection Hex (1998, 4:17): As good as it is, there’s so much more to LaR than just “So Alive“. Have any of the members of Bauhaus gone on to any projects that weren’t listenable?

Deconstruction: E-Trance from Trance Sexual (1996, 5:32): Random rather forgettable trance, really. Not bad, not great. Just there.

Die Krupps: To the Hilt from Rings of Steel (1995, 4:47): Die Krupps aren’t one of my favorite industrial bands, and many of the remixes on the Rings of Steel album are more impressive than the original versions, but they’re not bad.

White Zombie: I’m Your Boogieman from The Crow: City of Angels (1996, 4:29): Cheezy, yeah. Loud, yeah. And virtually always a lot of fun. Who needs actual substance when good samples, drums, guitar work, and a healthy dose of pure attitude will do?

99 percent failsafe

I got a good laugh when Kirsten posted this, and I finally remembered to mention it here.

Laura Bush recently expressed her “shock” over the gay marriage issue. In this Salon article she goes on to talk about sex education, mentioning that abstinence is “100 percent fail-safe.”

This raised Kirsten’s eyebrows, apparently…

And it suddenly occurred to me that this was just a little off…I mean – the Bushes are hardcore christians, right?

That abstinence bit worked REAL well for Mary and Joseph, didn’t it? It’s 100% fail-safe, after all.

iTunes: “Perfect Tan (Bikini Atoll)” by Machines of Loving Grace from the album Concentration (1993, 3:21).

Apple out of debt

Impressive, really — even with the economy in the shape it’s been lately, Apple has been doing so well that they were just able to pull themselves out of debt, according to this internal Apple memo:

Team,

Today is a historic day of sorts for our company. When I arrived back at Apple in mid-1997, the company was burdened with \$1 billion of debt. Through everyone’s hard work we turned Apple around, paid off the majority of our debt and began to amass a war chest of cash in the bank which has grown to about \$4.8 billion! But there was still \$300 million of remaining debt, which we decided to hold to maturity.

Today we used \$300 million of our cash to pay off this remaining debt.

Apple is now a debt-free company — for the first time in over a decade!

It sure feels good.

Steve

(via /.)

iTunes: “The Moon, Part 1” by Speakeasy from the album Common Ground (1995, 3:33).

Clumsy Brits

According to the Royal Society for the Prevention of Accidents, in 2002…

  • 12,300 people slipped and fell on wood floors.
  • 20,000 people injured themselves while riding microscooters.
  • 5,310 people fell while pulling on trousers.
  • And 700 people (assumedly men) injured themselves while zipping their trouser zippers.

\<cringe>Ow.\</cringe>

(via Prairie)

iTunes: “Golden Dawn” by Ministry from the album Land of Rape and Honey (1988, 5:42).

Why the genealogy bug?

Because it makes history real.

When I was younger, I claimed (only slightly tongue-in-cheek) that I couldn’t get into history because, “you meet all these interesting people — but they’re all dead!”

Thankfully, that attitude has changed as I’ve aged, and I’m constantly finding history more and more interesting. One of the big triggers for that change was the first time I started digging through the box of genealogical records that floats around our family, during one of its trips through our household. At first it was just idle curiosity, but then I started reading…

Random recollections of what’s contained in that box:

One family line can be traced back to Richard Warren, who came to America on the Mayflower.

The line of mom’s maiden name — Ward — can only be traced back a few generations. The popular theory is that a few generations back, the “family founder” was an orphan, and therefore a “ward of the state.” Hence, the family name of Ward.

One of my ancestors ran a stop on the Underground Railroad during the civil war.

During the westward expansion of America, one family lived in a little cabin somewhere out on the woods. One day the mother and father were off somewhere, leaving the children in charge of the oldest child, who was around ten or twelve, I believe. During the time they were gone, he realized that there was a mountain lion (cougar?) stalking the house, and he had to find his father’s gun and kill the predator before it made off with one of the younger children.

During the Revolutionary War, one ancestor fighting for the colonies was captured by the British. During the review of the prisoners on board a British ship, the captain stopped in front of him — it was his brother. They retired to the captains cabin and spent the next few hours in debate, each trying to convince the other to switch sides. Neither succeeded, the captured brother was set free, and neither brother saw the other again.

These are all things that when you read about them in the history books, they often just provoke a “huh…that’s neat” reaction. But when I sat there and read through these stories as they related to myself and my family, they resonated with me in a way they never had before, and suddenly it was all a lot more real to me.

I’m really looking forward to being able to get back into all this again.

Can you tell? :)

iTunes: “Sky Is Broken, The” by Moby from the album Play (1999, 4:18).